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stormkeeper_lovedoris ([personal profile] stormkeeper_lovedoris) wrote2012-08-10 06:37 pm

Public transportation - etiquette question

So, let's say you get on a crowded train or bus, and you take a seat next to someone. As the train continues its journey, it gets un-crowded and empty seats become available; you could get up and move to one where you won't be sitting next to someone.

Is it okay to do that? I tend to stay where I am based on some strange belief that the person I'm sitting next to will be offended.

[identity profile] stormkpr.livejournal.com 2012-08-12 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I like that approach - unless I had been chatting with them, no reason to feel bad about moving.

[identity profile] shar-bernadotte.livejournal.com 2012-08-13 03:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't take public transportation much so I don't have that problem, for the most part. But if I have the option, I don't sit right next to an occupied table in a restaurant if there are empty tables else where. Now if I am at a bar, a pub or restaurant bar, I usually strike up conversation with the people around me but I won't sit right next to someone if there are empty seats further down. I just feel weird if someone does that to me, so I don't do it to them. *shrugs* But I usually don't move, occasionally I will but not usually.