You didn't bring me down at all! Really, it's just the reality. A few years ago I was talking with an acquaintance, Ben. He said that even if someone gets married, it still doesn't bring any guarantees about the relationship. There aren't ever any guarantees that any couple will stay together forever.
I feel a huge amount of sadness and empathy over what happened with you and Adam. I realize it could happen to me too. It could happen to anyone. It's just a fact and I always try to stay aware of it, even long before Adam left.
Of course the fact also is that you may someday meet your (male) Doris. Perhaps Adam wasn't the one for you and the universe was clearing him out of your life so you can meet the one.
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Date: 2007-08-17 10:11 pm (UTC)I feel a huge amount of sadness and empathy over what happened with you and Adam. I realize it could happen to me too. It could happen to anyone. It's just a fact and I always try to stay aware of it, even long before Adam left.
Of course the fact also is that you may someday meet your (male) Doris. Perhaps Adam wasn't the one for you and the universe was clearing him out of your life so you can meet the one.