When should I.....?

[stormkeeper_lovedoris]

One of my favorite coworkers, Katie, is pregnant and due on March 3. I likely won't go to her shower but I want to get her a gift. When is it too early?

They know the sex of the baby and thus I think this means they are past the main 'danger zone'; miscarriage is much less likely by now. (She did have a miscarriage a few years ago). So is it too early to get a gift now?

I love Katie; she and her husband have been hugely involved in our LGBT employee group. She does a lot of the grunt work that no one else wants to.

Comments

[maddiec24.livejournal.com]

I would probably wait until time for the shower, even if I wasn't going. And I do always try and include something for the mother-to-be - - with my friends, it's usually a book, or lotion/shower gel sets, something with which to pamper themselves.

[stormkpr.livejournal.com]

Makes sense - thank you.