Public transportation - etiquette question

[stormkeeper_lovedoris]

So, let's say you get on a crowded train or bus, and you take a seat next to someone. As the train continues its journey, it gets un-crowded and empty seats become available; you could get up and move to one where you won't be sitting next to someone.

Is it okay to do that? I tend to stay where I am based on some strange belief that the person I'm sitting next to will be offended.

Comments

[stormkpr.livejournal.com]

This all totally makes sense. You know what I don't get though? This happened to me many times, including today. I didn't move because I had some strange idea of offending the woman. But she didn't move either. And every other time this has happened, neither I nor the other person has moved when seats opened up. (Which is kinda why I wondered if maybe there was some etiquette that said you shouldn't move).

[denisia.livejournal.com]

It could be that they wanted the seat they had...like maybe they wanted *that* window...or they might have expected you to move, or they might have honestly not cared. I know some folks just don't mind either way, so they will sit regardless and won't move. And some might figure that the bus will fill up again anyway, and the person next to them is safer to keep as a seatmate.

There isn't any rule against moving, though. If you want to move, you move. On the subway in NYC and buses here, it is totally usual to see people relocate when they can have more space to themselves. It is not offensive at all so you shouldn't have to worry about hurting anyone's feelings.

[stormkpr.livejournal.com]

It is very good to know that I can move and not have to worry about hurting someone's feelings. Thank you.